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17 January 1915 – Ted to Gertrude

Sunday.     Jan 17th

Dear Mother

Very many thanks for your letter which I got this morning dated 14th. I was wondering if you ever got that wire as I gave it to a promiscuous boy on deck who said he would send it off, & I’m glad he kept his promise. I posted some letters to you all on Friday night, which I expect you will get tomorrow Monday as your letters have taken 3 days to arrive I see.

Now I’m out here again it seems colder than it was at home! though I always said it was colder in England than here; but on 2nd thoughts it’s worse here, as the wind is so bitter. We have a holiday today as it is Sunday, & I am going for a country walk this afternoon with one of our French interpreters. Ask Ben if she remembers my walking over the St Bernard Pass with a Venetian, & Joe said he’d never seen a Hungarian! As a matter of fact this man is an Englishman who lives in France, & is doing interpreter for us.

Many thanks for Ruth’s wire, which I wish I had got before I left, it was very sweet of her to send it. Yes I wish I could have seen her, but I will make a point of it next time I come home. I must write to her but I don’t know her address, so please let me know what it is.

I don’t think there is much going on here, in our front. In fact I’ve only heard one heavy gun fire in the distance since I’ve been back. Mr New-coat is going to take the woolly lining out of his scutum today & use the scutum part only, as it’s too hot to wear & too much fag to carry as it is, & it’s sure to rain! We’ve all just had a present of a tin of toffee from the Grocers association inscribed “to our brave lads at the front!” Hooray! People really are absurdly good to us, & we are doing nothing.

I do hope old Topher is getting on all right, but I expect he’ll soon settle down after his experiences in S.A. This time last Sunday I was talking to dear old Mr & Mrs Drew, hauled out of Church, etc etc & generally living in a sort of dream! Yes rather I’ll store up some of the enjoyment, there was certainly enough & to spare, & use it when things are dull.

Are the girls washing up at the hospital now. I think it’s splendid of them to take on a job like that & I’m very proud of you all.  Must end up & get this censored.

Love to all yr loving son

Ted

 

 
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15 January 1915 – Paul to Gertrude

H.M.S. Gloucester

15.1.15

Dear Mother-

Very many thanks for your letter – dated 10th – How lovely it must be having Ted at home, and I can well imagine the hustle that is going on- I am awfully sorry to hear about Capon – what a nuisance it must have been when he was away, especially when there is such a crowd at home.

You said nothing about Ben being engaged to Wiggie in your letter – Dreda wrote & said in a passing sort of way ”Isn’t it ripping about Ben & Wiggie being engaged” – I said “Yes” but I did’nt know they were. Don’t think I exactly approve & I don’t suppose you do – but still it’s not for me to say & I do only hope & pray it will turn out a success. Ben is worth 100’s of Wiggies. Am glad to hear Ben is all right again & that the operation was successful.

Did you see in the morning post of 12th about us being sunk – some German news – written by an English lady, married to a German- Dorothy Black (that was) I expect.

So Willie Perkins is off to the front at last – he must be pleased

I have got various presents & cards from the King & Queen – Princess Mary etc- I’ll send them along –as I am bound to lose them if I keep them.

We are still waiting – generally most miserable weather- stacks of rain-

Washing, is our worst enemy at present – can’t get any done- I washed my pajamas in my bath today-

I’ve had the usual aching cough during the last week – all but developed into a churchyarder, but not quite. Am all right again now. Have the gramaphone records arrived?

With ever so much love to you all

From your ever loving son

Paul


 A churchyarder was a cough that might put you in the churchyard, one that made you sound as if you were dying.

 
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15 January 1915 – Ted to Jane

Jan.15.

Dear Jinny

I am a fool. I’ve brought out those films I bought at Masseys & they are much too small! I quite forgot to try them before I left, & only tried them this morning and found out. And I can’t send them home as you are not allowed to. I must send you some money to pay for them.

Hope you all got back safely after your sporting effort in seeing me off. I suppose now you are busy in the hospital, washing dishes and making yourselves generally useful. No news here, except that it is a rotten place, & there is no place to compare with England.

By the way I did’nt think much of the passing show, did you? I wish we had gone to Drury Lane now instead as several fellers here told me it was very good, & of course I’ve also heard it was rotten.

My dear my fur-lined [Aqua]scutum [coat] is quite the buzz of the regiment, & all are very envious; so it’s been a success you see, though I have’nt worn it in really wet weather yet. It’s been raining here all the time I’ve been away & is fairly dull today; awful cold too. We had a lovely crossing, just nice and rough and blowy enough to be really nice. Is’nt it rot having to come out here again; still I’m glad in a way my leave was’nt longer as I should have found it harder still to come out. I don’t suppose we shall get any more leave for some time now, at least it’s all been stopped now & we are going back into the trenches next week I believe.

Sorry I have’nt got much news to tell you but as I only saw you yesterday morning, I have’nt had much time! Thanks awfully for all you did for me at home Jinny, I had a fizzing time & hope to be home again soon to rag you. Write me a nice long letter soon and tell us all about it. So long keep smiling, tons of love from

Ted

 

 
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15 January 2015 – Ted to Gertrude

Friday.       15.1.15.

Dear Mother

Just a line to tell you I arrived safely yesterday after really a very comfortable journey & a good crossing, during which I was NOT ill!

We got here about 9 o’clock last night, by train, motor bus, & motor lorry. Everything seems much the same as it was when I left, & the weather certainly is the same. They have had wet days all the time, so I was fearfully lucky to get such a nice dry spell for the few days I was home. I must just say how fearfully I enjoyed my leave, & how ripping you all were to me, it was topping seeing everyone again, & I can never thank you all enough for giving me such a good time; I only wish I could have stayed at home longer, but of course I count myself fearfully lucky to be able to get home at all.

I hope the others got home safely after seeing me off. I’m afraid I dragged them out fearfully early & it was awfully sporting of them to get up so early after a late night, & I appreciated it muchly. Rather a rush on the platform as I expect they told you, crowds of people & introductions & a final dash for the train as it was just starting. By the way I found I never took my nail brush home, so it should not be on that list of things I left behind. But I did leave my purse behind somewhere so please send that out.

Very cloudy & cold here, & we are off to the trenches again next week, but won’t be in such a long time this time. I hear they are entirely under water! Jolly is’nt it. By the way I find I ordered a pair of govt: gum boots some time ago & they have now arrived, so I shan’t want a pair; I don’ think they are really much good, as if one must get wet it’s much better to slosh around & do it thoroughly & not try & meet it half way, I don’t think it’s any good. Tons of love & thanks to all again for such a highly gorgeous time

Yr loving son

Ted.

 
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10 January 1915 – Paul to Gertrude

10.1.15

Dear Mother.

V. many thanks for your letter. How lovely Ted & Dick coming home & Topher at home- Seems such a pity I can’t get away but it’s absolutely impossible.

Topher writes & says he’s joined in Jim’s Regt. I do hope he will like it & get on well.

Glad to hear Ben is all right again. I enclose some photographs taken when we were off the Dardanelles – they are all much the same & are for distribution amongst the family.

Please thank D for her letter & the sox. I’ll write anon.

I’ve sent you some Gramophone records (2) one organ one called “Evensong” I think you will like awfully.

Must go to bed – It is cold here today.

Very best love – your ever loving son

Paul

I forgot to tell you. I saw Digby the other day. He asked very tenderly after you.

 
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10 January 1915 – Richard to Gertrude

Avonmouth, Bristol 10th

Dear Mother.

I’ve just wired you to say I have arrived safe in England. Arrived today after an awful voyage in the Bay. The Dilwara was with us, tell Ben the way she rolled was awful, I hope Ben had a better time than that.

I’ve just been to see Kathleen, so nice being in England again & seeing someone I knew, talk about Jane & everyone. Tomorrow we go on to Brighton I believe, where we are to have our hospital & I’ll let you know about things.

So nice being home again in spite of all this awful war. I’ve seen no casualty lists lately & I hope everyone is safe. I’ll try & post this here tomorrow.

Best love to all

Yr loving son

Richard.

You might write to me

Richard. C.P. Berryman Esq
E.M.S.
No 8A Indian General Hospital c/o Post Office
Brighton.


Richard’s destination is the famous Indian Military Hospital at Brighton

 
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January 1915 – Benedicta to Gertrude – Engagement to Wiggs

Tuesday

I got your letter last night thank you so much. You seem certainly to have had rather a strenuous day on Sunday. Isn’t it sickening the weather has been so alarming. I can’t describe the rain and wind yesterday and really last night it didn’t seem possible for the house to stand much longer but today so far is ripping so Wiggs and I are going over to Rye to lunch and down to Cumber if the little trains still go in the winter. I heard from Dreda this morning about Willie being ill, I do hope he’ll be all right for the dance if we manage tickets, anyway I suppose Marjorie and I can go with Topher & Wiggie but we shall be disappointed if so many of us can’t go, sickening for Jane but I really don’t suppose Eric will have gone!

I don’t know whether you’ll be pleased No I don’t suppose for a moment you will be I can’t quite expect it but Wiggs and I have decided that it’s best to be engaged. The unsatisfactory way in which we were going on was NO good, it isn’t all done on the spur of the moment, much thinking has been done & I’m sure it’s best. There are to be no great shoutings about it but anyone who wants to know can, you will I fancy think we are doing right, the other situation was rotten for me but I didn’t want to sort of rush Wiggs into anything so things had to wait. If the dance is off I am going to stay here till Thursday so will you send me a line either here or Dollie’s as that is where I shall be on Wednesday night for the dance, see? Will you give the enclosed to Dreda, I wonder if either of your billets will come back, on wednesday or is the scare sill on. Have a rest when you can I expect you were awfully tired after christmas & it was all rather a rush

Love to all,

your loving Ben

You’ll iron my frock won’t you, the ninon at the top too.


Ben and Wiggs got engaged within weeks of her return from India and when she told her mother she was clearly on the defensive about it and maybe about him. My mother was puzzled by the whole thing: when she edited the letters in the 1980s she asked “who was Wiggs?” and added “there was certainly no ‘shouting’ about the engagement. No one else mentions it.”

Wiggs’ real name was Ivan Bennett and, at 25, he was some 6 years younger than Ben, which may explain her defensiveness and the disapproval she seems to have expected. 

Ben certainly knew Wiggs before going to India because she corresponded wiith him with while she was away. She mentions him in a letter in September when he appears to have joined up early but critically:

Wiggs tell me he was inlisting into Kitchener’s 2nd Army, well it obvious the right thing to do, however much against soldiering one is.

She may have been encouraged to go to India in 1913 to get over her feelings for him. In October Paul says:

Re – Ben & Mr Bennett – as you say a rather difficult question – and I must say that I should rather be inclined to let him come back to Delaford, because they will be bound to meet elsewhere & that sort of deception from your point of view I’m sure you dont like. Much better let them more or less carry on openly. It sounds ridiculous I know Wiggie 22 & Ben 28 or whatever her age is, but these days nature does funny things – & I also don’t think Wiggie is worthy of Ben, her due is someone much more perfect- In any case now they won’t have heaps of chances of meeting – I wonder what you have done, because I expect Ben is home by now anyhow! I hope she has arrived safely & is well-

He seems to have been a friend of the family, in November Ted had mentioned Wiggs as a friend of Gertrude’s.

He was clearly accepted by the family, however reluctantly, as we can see in this photograph taken in the spring of 1915, which we can date because of the brothers who were in England at the same time.

Ivan Bennett, Ted Berryman, Richard Berryman<br/>Christopher Berryman, Jim Berryman

Ivan Bennett, Ted Berryman, Richard Berryman
Topher Berryman, Jim Berryman
Spring 1915

 

 

4 January 1915 – Ted to Gertrude

Jan 4th

Dear Mother

I’ve got my leave all right, so barring accidents I’ll be home on the 8th allright. I don’t know what the rules are about wearing uniform or mufti at home, but I expect I’ll be able to find some mufti in the house somewhere if I want it, though I’ve got nothing to go to town in-

Very wet & miserable here still and frightfully cold. We had a big parade this morning for Genl Willcocks cmdg: the Indian Army corps, & he dished out some buttery remarks; my word it was cold on parade, & it was raining most of the time. Really I’ve never seen such cold & persistent rain. I enclose a sketch by Dolly Lyell, rather good is’nt it. So long. See you all soon.

Love to all

Ted

According to Drake-Brockman, the Garhwalis were in billets at Hurionville near Lillers which was the Indian Army Corps Commander’s headquarters at the time as well as their realhead. They arrived there at 2:30pm on December 30th.

 
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3 January 1915 – Ted to Gertrude

Jan 3

Dear Mother

Just got a ripping long letter from you of 31st, written in the Parish Room, & I’ve just time to scrawl a reply. I have just been to church in the local theatre, as they said it was a special intercession day, but there were only 21 officers there.

Incessant rain all day & every day & very cold. Yes rather I have got my new uniform, & feel fearfully smart & clean. Hope Dick is home same time as I am.

Why is Topher going into the RNR, I thought he wanted a mounted job. This is Sunday & with any luck I’ll be home on Friday. I don’t know what the trains are, but I ought to be able to catch one down to Guildford somewhere around 4 to 6 o’clock. Anyone going to hang round Waterloo on the off chance? I hope Ben’s all right. See you soon & tell you everything.

Lots of love to all

from Ted

According to Drake-Brockman, the Garhwalis were in billets at Hurionville near Lillers which was the Indian Army Corps Commander’s headquarters at the time as well as their realhead. They arrived there at 2:30pm on December 30th.

 
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2 January 1915 – Paul to Gertrude

Jan. 2nd 1915

Dear Mother,

Thank you most awfully for the leather waistcoat – it has just arrived & does look warm – it will be very useful – and also the socks – cake & pudding arrived today too – jolly good cake – the pudding I’m keeping till tomorrow.

We didn’t have what you could call a Merry Christmas – we were at sea for 4 days or so during that time – & in the most appalling weather I’ve ever known – blowing & as rough as possible & bitterly cold as well, & when we came in we had to coal all during the Sunday, – night as well – there seem to be continual gales blowing round these parts – so different to our Mediterranean weather.

The Dudmans have sent me 3 pots of “apple jelly” – excellent – I must say our mess has been liberally supplied with food-stuffs during Christmas – the amount of chocolates & various things I’ve eaten during the last week is awful-

That strange P.C. F.N. Renny person sent me a box of cigarettes yesterday- and what’s more I’ve remembered who it is – I used to know him down at Portsmouth ages ago when I was in the Essex.- I’ve had stacks of letters lately too, but nearly all from people to whom I sent Christmas cards.

How’s Topher getting along – has he decided on anything as yet. Glad Lyon has good news of Ted. I sent him papers from the mess & a parcel of various things for Christmas. There is very little news.       with ever so much love to you all from

Your ever loving son

Paul


I am not certain where the Gloucester is at this time, but by early February she and Paul are in Scapa Flow in Orkney, so it seems likely that this letter was written there, or in one of the Scottish North Sea ports.

 
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